I can’t tell you how much I enjoy having my dick locked in chastity and what exactly it does to my own personality. The depth of my willingness to submit and the constant state of sub-space I am drawn into is a little hard to put into words. However, being in long-term Chastity comes with some logistics to consider. Everything from how clothing will fit your junk, to maintaining an acceptable degree of cleanliness, to managing your sleeping positions for maximum comfort. These are all things you will be very much forced to consider and adjust to when you make the commitment to be a locked-up himbo faggot.
The First 3 Days SUCK!
I want everyone to understand, that chastity is a commitment, and long-term wear is a marathon, not a sprint. It takes time to adjust to having this thing on your genitals 24 hours a day. For me, the first 3 days are always the most problematic.
There is the constant state of frustrated horny-ness you have to contend with which to some extent is the fucking hardest part. YOU-ARE-ALWAYS-FUCKING-HARD. This is where I see a lot of the subs I have coached brake down and many say that the longest they have ever stayed in for is about 3 days. But you have to remember that you ARE doing something that excites you. Of course, you are going to be aroused, and part of the fun of this is there is NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT. You are basically fucked and it’s something you have to come to terms with. For many, I included – Chastity serves as a form of bondage, and the helplessness is part of the turn-on.
Next comes what I call (OOPs there goes my nuts). The cage I wear is a metal device with a base ring. Your plums hang between the base ring and the cage. Now generally speaking the cage I have fits me very well. The ring is not too tight, and my potatoes hang perfectly in place.
Nevertheless, from time to time one of my nuts somehow escapes between the base ring and the cage going on a magical journey around my nether regions. For me, this is not painful, and in most cases, the rogue testicle makes its way back into the proper position with its other friend in my fucking nut sack. But for someone that is new to the long-term game, this can be a little alarming. Sure I can most of the time pop the long-lost nut back into place, but I find if I just wait a bit it will come back home just like that loyal doggo you had as a kid.
If you can get past the initial 3 days, then you are golden and the amazing benefits of being caged will start to surface.
The “boy” comes out when the dick is decommissioned
A big part of chastity, at least for me is about the headspace it puts me into. If you didn’t already know this, I am very much a fucking Alpha – which means I am rarely out of control. However, I have this submissive need that pulls me down into a very “beta” position. For me, the submissive state is very grounding and is almost like a sanity check. This “headspace” is vital for me to maintain a good life balance.
There are some aspects of my life where I need to be in charge, but for everything else, I subscribe to an all-in-power exchange with my partner who is my DOM/Sir/Daddy. And his word is the law.
Maintaining this dynamic has its challenges. Stress, outside influences, household management, etc are all things that tend to pull me out of the proper submissive headspace.
When I am not in my super-slut, himbo condition I find myself becoming very moody, hard to handle, and just an all-around prick.
Daddy knows one of two things needs to happen, or even both. I need a good fucking which serves as a rectally-induced-lobotomy and/or it’s time for the CAGE. Most of the time, I need both, and I get both.
For now, let us just focus on what decommissioning my pee-pee does for my mental and physical health.
First, I notice that my focus gets better. Don’t get me wrong, in the back of my head there is this little voice that keeps telling me I need to go out and find bigger, meaner things to put up my bussy. But on the other hand, I find I am better able to organize my thoughts and recover executive function points I didn’t know I had in reserve.
Next, because I do want to focus more on my starfish, and the pleasure that playground brings, I think about what it is I am eating. Like should I have this high protein high fiber meal because it will make clean-out easier, or do I want that slice of pizza…
I find myself making better food choices out of the need to feed my sluttyness which of course means more energy to do more … things …
Surely not least with more energy comes the desire to work out. I see my body, I am making healthy choices, and I want to be more attractive, so I can get fucked more or at minimum get more of Daddy’s Attention (which is not hard to get — Love you Daddy) you start going to the gym. Next thing you know you are fucking picking things up and putting them down around hot fucking bro-types, and all you really want to do is have one take you into the locker room thusly hate fucking you in the most complete way possible.
Summertime….and the chastity’s easy — or not….
Generally speaking, I do not like to take my cage off for any reason. Like my collar, both are deep symbols of my submission and I would prefer they never leave my body.
In fact, my collar has been around my neck for so long (over 5 years at this stage) the lock is completely frozen. It’s been in 5 out of the 7 oceans, on the MAL and IML Stages when I competed, and naturally has been a constant companion of mine. So with that level of symbolic dedication, I get very emotional when I have to take off my cage.
There are of course differences between a collar and a chastity cage. This is something I completely understand, and of course, with Daddy’s permission and understanding, I do remove it from time to time during the summer months for any number of reasons.
One of which is when I go swimming. NOW don’t miss understand me. I love when people can see the outline of my cage in my pants. It is such a turn-on for me you have no fucking idea. In the summer I go out of my way to wear shit that is tight, and slutty just for that reason (not that I need a reason to dress like a man-whore, but it’s nice to have one.)
Swimwear is no different, I love the fact that people can see my cage CLEAR AS FUCKING DAY in the pouch of my nasty pig bathing suit. And I have had muggles (non-kinky-folk) come up and ask me about what’s going on down yonder.
Still, it’s important to note that water and locking mechanisms don’t always mix. Sure it is perfectly fine to shower or even take a short bath with your cage on. But swimming for hours could present a very interesting state when you fucking lock freezes up.
Now there are some calculated risks that can be taken. For instance, pools and hot tubs for a few hours, are most likely not that different from a bath. The water doesn’t contain metal reactive compounds (at least it shouldn’t). As long as you ensure the lock is functional and works after swimming or bathing you should be fine to keep it on. It is important to ensure that your cage and dick dry properly since the skin is not meant to stay in a constant state of moistyness.
Saltwater and sand, however like at the beach is a major NO-GO and should be avoided. Personally, I am not a beach person, but Daddy and I do spend a lot of time on our boat which is in salt water, and I do appreciate swimming in the bay. For me, this is one of the few times I personally believe it is acceptable to remove your cage.
Dressing for Success – as a Chastity Slut!
You have made it past the initial 3 days, you are cruising along enjoying the locked-away bliss chastity brings, now you need to start figuring out ways to fit your very full balls, and cage into clothing.
The first thing I am going to tell you is that people are going to see your cage if you wear tight clothing. As I stated before, this is a major fucking turn-on for me, so I do. But I have to think about comfort as well.
Compromises from a clothing standpoint will have to be made to ensure comfort. For instance, I don’t generally like to wear underwear. I think they are a waste of time, and really just create more laundry. But when you have a cage on you may want the additional support a good-fitting jock strap brings. The same goes for a cute pair of booty shorts, which will help to support your cage, while also showing it off. This stuff isn’t fucking rocket science, you just need to use a little common sense (which I admit I lack) when picking your fit.
You need to make sure you have the proper equipment to ensure your own personal safety.
Let’s be fucking Smart … Safety first!
Granted, I have already told you how much I desire to remain in chastity. But there are just some moments for my own personal safety the cage MUST come the fuck off. I do not travel overseas with it on unless I have a key (and I rarely do as part of my power exchange). And I always have the option of removing it if needed.
You need to make those choices for yourself. And keep in mind that all of this is meant to be fun and an enhancement to your day-to-day life. The moment it’s not fun or you are not getting the desired benefits, then it’s time to call it a day and stop.
We are all consenting adults and it’s important to remember that at the end of the day, you have all of the power because you are the one who is truly in control.
So please, exercise good restraint, and have fun with all of this fucking shit.
This is not a complete guide to chastity, and I know there is stuff I didn't cover. I am sure I will write about this more in the future. Please note that all of this comes from my own personal experience, and may be taken as reference only from the stance of entertainment.
